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WHY DO I HAVE EXPERIENCE FAILURE IN LIFE

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In this part, I'm going to share about failure versus success.Why failure?  Are you willing to be failed in your  life? Are you sure about failure?  It is necessary to failed?.

This is the common issue that's happening in our life. To understand and find out the important of failure, I'm willing to share a lot of failure experience in my life that already happen before  and how it is working to myself until I've become one of the successful person.

The first things is try to understand this words:

Failure is the part of life. If there is life, there is failure too. If there is life, there is success too. You never deny it, and nobody could ever deny it either. Success and failure are like the two sides of a same coin  where there is success there is failure too. It is like pass and parcel. We can say like day and night.

                                               Photo: 🎓 From Sultan Idris Education.  
                                                        University, Perak Malaysia. 

How does it happen in my life :

1. Enjoy your failure like enjoy your  
    success.

Just imagine there is no failure if no success, there is no success if no failure. What do you think? Is anything happens in your life? Well, of course nothing going happen if failure and success is not working together for your future. People are always getting failed and succeed in whatever they doing in life, we raise from failure until we succeess. Either your failed or success there could be a chance to change what we need. 

2. Welcome it with your open mind and  
    heart. 

Just be relax and think positive if you failed and after that make a new plan how solve your weaknesses and how to solve your problem. Open your mind to create a new things in your head, so that you can implay into yourself. 

3.Treat is as your teacher. 

Always remind yourself, failure can be treat yourself to change the weakness. And of course, to learn quickly form failure it's necessary to make sure that you are not going to failed again. 

4. Learn form it. 

Learn from your experience, the negative will be change to positive things  if you learn from past experience.

5. Improve yourself, but never allow it to rule you. 

Just take it easy, make a choice or the right way how to improve yourself or to fight on yourself for success and allow your personality to change the negative into positive. 

6.Tame it as your galloping horse and march ahead towards the road of your  success. 

Always be a hero for yourself. Whatever you do, just focus on your mind, your aim, your goals and make a wise planning to ensure what we going to do is going well. 




It's very important face failure in your life before you taste the sweetnest of your grand success. It'll give you more happiness and contentment. However, if you get the sweet taste of success in the very first instance, then you might not face the bitter encounter of your failure later on. 

Here is what I think?

If you face failure in your initial attempt, then you'll get enough time to adjust and acclimatized yourself and you too able to cope up every harsh situation of your failure. 
You could prepare yourself right from the very beginning, you could transform yourself from good to better, and from better to best. 
You'll become a master of your chosen goals. You'll able to judge your strong points and weak point. 
You'll know everything about yourself. You could awake your hidden skills and talents. 
You could examine yourself thoroughly, you'll become more cautious and you'll become more confident. 
You'll gain more self-esteem and you'll become more discipline. 
You'll become more responsible and you'll grow and mature yourself. 
You'll become stronger than what you were in your previous attempts.
 You'll become more courageous and valiant that what you were in your past.
 You'll make your new plan, different moves and strategies to face the next level of your challenges. 


The best part of your failure is to learn new lesson and gain new experience from it, and improve yourself further.

If you fear of failure, you'll never do anything right in your life. You'll never learn anything in your life. And you'll always remain lacking behind of everybody and everything.

If you fear of failure, it means you destroyed try something new. And when you never try to do new things in your life, you'll never achieve anything in your life, you'll never change your life, you'll never bring differences in your life and you'll never know the beauties of your life and the thrilling mysteries of this world. 




Learn to accept  your failures as your victory.

Take is as your learning experience.

Take it is your new challenge.

Take it as your new ways.

Take it as your new approach. 

Take it as your new turning point. 

Take it as your new opportunity. 

Take it as your new transformation. 

But never give up your trying. 



The greatest example of failure to success is:
When Thomas Alva Edison failed many times in his experiment, at that time one of his friends asked him, "You'll failed so many times, why don't you stop your experiment?"

In reply Thomas Alva Edison said "I found a thousand of new ways in my every failure".

All the great legends in the history of mankind are the great failures in their respective fields in their initial endeavors, but they never gave up, they kept trying while learning new lessons and gaining experiences from their bitter failures. 


Just like us, all of us are the responsibility of future success. Don't blame yourself just because you had been failed for the first time or getting more failure but you'll become a legend for yourself and also others people. 

So good luck for your future. 


LEARN  GOOD LESSONS FROM YOUR FAILURE. 

GAIN KNOWLEDGE FROM YOUR FAILURES. 

EARN EXPERIENCES FROM YOUR FAILURES. 

FIND OUT NEW IDEAS FROM YOUR FAILURE. 

DISCOVER NEW SOLUTIONS FROM YOUR FAILURES. 

Credit: Thomas Alva Edison quote,
            Experience  while studying at.  
            Sultan Idris Education University 
            (UPSI). 

By: Walter Marius 

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